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Sunday, July 4, 2004

8:18PM - new and need help :-/

Ok, so i have this really good friend, hes more like a brother than a friend. Ive liked him for almost ever, practically 12 years (is that normal first of all?). We've been getting a lot closer lately, but he never seems to want 'a relationship' and a part of me doesnt blame him, cause i know how relationships ruin everything once theyre over. I just dont know what to do...So he asked me to the movies and dinner last night, i went and had the best time (anytime with him is good), and then i was talking to this girl last night, and she has a boyfriend, and theyre gettin more and more serious lately, and shes like yea i like (the guy i was with that night) too like a lot. Ok second question, can you really be dating one guy and liking another so much, ive never tried it, but i guess im not that much of an attention seeker like she is. So the thing I need help with is being able to tell this guy how i feel about him, i dont think he knows how i really feel, should i tell him? I just dont know, cause i wouldnt want to ruin the amazing friendship we have now. I cant stop thinking about him, and it breaks my heart everyday to think of him with someone else. How come guys are so hard to understand and evil...yet we still love them to death. Some help or hits or anything would be a HUGE help. thanks for at least listening. keep smiling:):):) ~Hannah~

Current mood: confused
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Wednesday, June 30, 2004

7:46PM - new

i'm in a relasonship with one of my good friends. since we've been going out we really haven't talked. it seems like he's ignoring me. and, i'm going to his house the 4th of july and, i'm scared that he is going to ignore me there because of his friends. what should i do about it?

Current mood: indescribable
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Tuesday, July 22, 2003

2:49AM - New and could really use some advice.

I am a lesbien.I have a friend who is a girl trapped inside a guy's body. He is bi-sexual and is very interested in me. I am a tom boy but I am not a guy trapped inside a girl's body. I am a girl. The few ties I have been interested in him were when we got a chance to talk and he showed me an inner strength that I found very beautiful.
When we cuddled once, I got uncomfertable and he tried to stop me from moving and for a moment I felt very much like a blow up doll. Doesn't my comfert mater? There is slight chemestry at times. But at other times he just drives me crazy. He's judgemental and his facial expressions and comments border on creepy. But then when I get to spend time alone with him and we talk, I realize I do care for him. But I'm not sure if it is in a friend way or a more then friend way.

I like girls. I am attrac6ed to girls. He is a guy. He has his flaws but that is common of humans. We all have our flaws.

I'm not good at rejecting him. The way I act when we have our good moments borders on leading him on. I knw I do lead him on. I am really bad at being assertive when it comes to telling people I'm not interested. I ama shy girl trapped inside a brave girl's body. I know this is cruel and I try to over come. But I don't even know if am interested in him. I am just mixed up.

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Sunday, July 20, 2003

3:37PM

this is a test

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